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In the Spirit of Earth Day
A Sustainable Wedding
Text: Johanna Kaestner
Photography:
Bride, Groom, and Guests

An organic, or "green" wedding may have you thinking of drab colors, like the brown, natural coffee filters you already use. This is a far cry from the wedding of your dreams. 
Read how Eileen and Chris combined dreams and conscience in order to celebrate their wedding in an environmentally responsible way.


Eileen creates the layout of the hall


Eileen was the first one to think "green." Her cousin, who owns an organic tea company in Boston, had introduced her to cooking with organic ingredients and taught her to take our earth's resources into consideration. It soon became her way of life, and she was very happy when she found a job in San Francisco working for a magazine with social, cultural, and environmental issues on its banner.

 


Chris makes the bamboo frames

A year later, Chris moved to San Francisco. Without knowing it Eileen's aunt, Mim, played matchmaker. She had given Chris Eileen's phone number before he moved to San Francisco. A year later their friendship turned into love, and after a rather creative proposal, they started to plan their wedding together. Read: Chris's proposal
 
Church
Eileen and Chris attend Grace Cathedral, an Episcopalian church in San Francisco; they love the multicultural services there. However, they knew the church was much too large for their ceremony, so they picked St. Steven's Church in Belvedere in Marin. Its contemporary design and simple wooden details appealed to them.
Reception Hall
The church's brand new parish hall, a modern L-shaped building made of steel, wood, and glass, was completed just in time for the reception. The natural courtyard, adjacent to the new building, served as the perfect place for the after-ceremony cocktails.


Food

Having decided on the venue, Eileen and Chris were interested in a caterer who could provide organic food. They found him in Russell Wegner, owner of Work of Art. Russell was someone they knew from their association with the San Francisco Museum of Art, where they are members. Russell's company has a zero waste policy, and his delicious fare is enhanced by the elegant buffet-scape presentation. For Eileen and Chris he created a brook of shiny black pebbles banked by bamboo and ferns, a natural setting in which to set out the wedding dinner. The buffet dinner was creative California vegetarian based cuisine. Meat lover guests could dine on seared, free-range chicken breast with roasted pepper caper relish.
The Cake
The wife of Eileen's cousin, a baker, provided the organic wedding cake. She arrived from Boston with three frozen cakes in her luggage. There were Chris and Eileen's favorites: German chocolate and carrot cake, and finally a vanilla apricot cake. The cakes thawed during the trip, and could be decorated on the morning of the wedding. The cake stand was custom-designed by Chris and built by his friend Greg Kice from steel and bamboo. If you want to purchase the stand, please send your offer to Chris!

Flowers
One of Eileen's friends is a hobby florist, and Eileen entrusted her with the designs for the personal flowers. She created the bridal bouquet with wine-colored calla lilies accented with white freesias, Eileen's favorite flowers. The "best women" sported bouquets of white tulips.

Invitations
All invitations, announcements, and programs were designed by Chris and were printed on recycled paper from New Leaf Paper in San Francisco. There was a quiz on the back of the program: How well do you know the bride? How well do you know the groom?
 

Favors/Place Cards
Eileen and Chris looked for reusable favors made from sustainable products. They found bamboo plywood which they used to assemble 3 x 5 picture frames, which served as place card holder. The place cards were made of recycled paper mixed with hemp.


Wedding Dress
Eileen discovered her wedding gown "en passant" in a small designer boutique in the Russian Hill District. Disappointed by hours of fruitless search in the city's bridal shops, she spotted the off-white gown in the Atelier de Modistes and immediately fell in love with it. It resembled her favorite vintage dress, a hand-me-down from one of her aunts. Of course, this gown, made to fit, was more expensive than she had budgeted. However, she felt this dress, not made in a sweat shop, could rectify the expense. The designer and owner of the boutique, Susan Hanley, first made a muslin sample; she adjusted the neckline in the back, and added a puddle train.

Originally Eileen wanted to have her bridal gown made from a blend of hemp and silk, but she discovered that the material was too soft for a bridal dress. However, she liked that fabric so much that she handmade the men's ties, the table runner for the bridal table, and a few cushions from this fabric.


Wedding Party
Eileen had no bridesmaids. She called her three attendants "best women." Chris also had three "best men." The flower girl was the "best little woman" and the ring bearer the "best little man."
The entire wedding party walked together down the aisle, Eileen with her mother. The couple included vows from Grace Cathedral, that acknowledged different religious beliefs. There was no receiving line after the ceremony. The newlyweds and their guests walked together to the reception hall. 

 Music
Chris's Hungarian family heritage was the inspiration for the Hungarian Gypsy band that played during dinner. The DJ was a friend of a friend. He played mostly music from the seventies, to which everybody could relate.

 


 

Transportation
Instead of a gasoline guzzling limo, a Toyota Prius was the vehicle of their choice of transportation from the city. They hired a bus to bring guests to the wedding, saving gasoline and solving the problem of limited parking.
 

 

This and That
The organic coffee served at the reception was the gift of one of Eileen's clients. Eileen's cousin provided organic tea, and other relatives and friends provided wine and champagne.

Presents
The couple was registered in stores close to their home, and they asked these business not to wrap the gifts. The stores called them when presents were ordered, and Eileen or Chris picked them up when ,
 

The Event Professionals
Venue: Parish Hall of St. Steven's Church in Belvedere
Catering:
 Work of Art
Wedding Dress: Atelier de Modiste, San Francisco

 




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